:: how to make good and lasting relationship ::

A NOTE for muhself!!!!


Listen to your beloved.

Try to show tolerance and be open-minded. Avoid showing sarcasm and negativity. In general, anything that can cause you a bad mood or her bad mood should be avoided.

You should learn to give as well as to take - to give or take is not the answer, only a combination of the two in equal measure.

Try to make your partner's parents like you. It is very important for both of you.

Learn to give unconditionally. To expect always something in return is the same as paying for something.

Avoid being too emotional in your everyday life. It can be especially applied to males. You will have to convince your beloved that you are strong; that you are self-confident; that you know what to do; and that she can rely on your emotional strength to be a help for her.

Kindness, understanding, trust and consideration are the keywords in relationships. If you are only trying to derive benefit from these relationships, forget about mutual understanding.

In every relationship it is important to be a good and reliable friend. If you are your beloved's understanding friend, she/he will be grateful and rewarding.

Don't let anyone treat you abusively. Demand respect.

If your relationships are established, you should carry on showing your beloved that you love and appreciate him/her. It is not difficult. You can do this by little things as buying flowers and small presents from time to time.

Beware of possessiveness and claiming behavior. Keep in mind that your partner is as independent as you are and should never be treated as an object or possession.

Don't let other people push your buttons. Otherwise you won't be able to make any decision by yourself.
Learn to adjourn your recompense through patience, trust and understanding.

Try to see your partner's point of view. Agree to disagree.

Respect your partner's space.